Rather than have a gradually deteriorating relationship, these somewhat needy people have roller coaster relationships with many emotional ups and downs.
For both the very needy and somewhat needy person, their fears of being rejected or being alone interfere with setting healthy boundaries that stabilize the relationship and promote equality.
This leads me to the next point…Dropping Everything For A Man It’s Friday night and you have agreed to have a wine and cheese night in with your girlfriends, and you told your mother you would call at 7 p.m. Men do what they want and if he wants you, he will make the effort. Futuristic Thinking One of the most common mistakes women make in the early stages of dating is putting the cart before the horse. A confident girl is at her best, a needy girl is at her worst. If you feel yourself going into need mode pull out your nail file and relax. Extract your emotions from the situation, look observantly and pull that cupid arrow out of your butt long enough to think to yourself is this man of good character and a good fit for me.
They often feel like they have to "walk on eggshells" with their partners, which takes the joy out of the relationship.
People who are may have periods when they are very strong, even breaking up, but then quickly lose their resolve.
Finding Balance Boosting Your Confidence Community Q&A Have you ever been described as needy or clingy?
Do you get so excited about a new friendship or relationship that you bombard the other person with attention, only to find that the person starts to seem distant?